The Messy Inbetween
Hosts Murugi Munyi and Lydia K.M. explore the messy realities of life, covering love, work, money, relationships, and friendships. They share personal stories and insights, inviting listeners to join their journey of figuring things out. The podcast embraces the chaos and imperfections of everyday life.
Episodes
Debatable Friendship Expectations | Episode 239
Guys, can we talk about friendship expectations? Because some of these things we expect from our friends are actually debatable!👀. On today’s video, we’re getting into it! Is your friend not posting you on your birthday a friendship red flag? Should you split the bill equally or only pay for what you ate and drank? We spent about 25 minutes debating this one, so you already know it got interesting
Your Friend Is Richer Than You - Now What? | Episode 238
Happy episode day Inbetweeners🎙️❤️Can money complicate friendships? And when your friend can afford a lifestyle you can't, what does navigating that difference look like? This week, we're talking friendship, money from the trending conversation around Savannah James and April McDaniel. We’re unpacking where generosity ends, entitlement begins, and whether friendship has to look the same wh
He's A Good Man... Is He Though? | Episode 237
Hot, rich and obsessed with you. That was the standard. 😂 But somewhere between our 20s and now, the list got a serious rewrite. In this episode, we get into the things we used to think made a good man, what we value now and the things we have simply outgrown.So Inbetweeners, tell us what made the cut for you, what got crossed off and what you absolutely cannot compromise on anymore.Enjoy the epis
What’s Been On Our Minds Lately | Episode 236
Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Today’s agenda: a little brain dump.Think of this episode as one big extended intro. We just sat down and talked about all the things that have been popping into our minds lately. The value of individualism, cars and the things we take for granted, love, and a whole lot more. And because apparently we had A LOT to say, this ended up being one of our longest episodes, We
An Inbetweener Once Said… | Episode 235
We’re always asking you guys to comment and share your thoughts on our episodes, and today, we’re getting back to them! An Inbetweener once said… and we read your comments from past episodes and reacted to them.Now, let’s settle this: When is it appropriate to fart openly in a relationship? We spent almost 25 minutes diving deep into this topic!🤣🤣 Would you rather hold in a fart during sex or excu
Relationship Timelines | Episode 234
Hey Inbetweeners! How’s your Friday going?Thank you for tuning in once again! In today’s episode, we’re talking about relationship timelines. Is there actually an appropriate time for different milestones in a relationship? When should you or your partner say “I love you”? When is it okay to have access to your partner’s account? When should you move in together, have sex, talk about your salary o
Sex Hills We’re Willing to Die On | Episode 233
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment:https://beduc.at/bg2635-tmipodcastIt’s Friday🤩! And you know we’re back with another fire episode🔥On today’s episode, we’re discussing the sex hills we’re willing to die on😂 And guys, please let us know… are we exaggerating?😭 Someone on the podcast said their perfect sex song is “Bandana” by Asake, and apparently THAT is the sex hill they’re w
Things That Work in Relationships But Social Media Says Leave | Episode 232
Happy new month, Inbetweeners. May your September be filled with love, kindness, positivity, peace of mind, laughter, healing, and plenty of good days.Today’s episode is all about those things that are working perfectly fine in your relationship, but according to social media, y’all should have broken up already. We put this question up on our Instagram stories and the responses were quite interes
What Would We Do If…? | Episode 231
What’s good, Inbetweeners? Happy episode day!Thank you for all the love on our last episode. We appreciate every like, comment and share❤️.We’re back with another episode of dilemmas, but this time, we’re switching things up a little. These aren’t your usual “My boyfriend has been cheating on me, what should I do?” dilemmas😂.These ones are a little more… interesting, and we get to share exactly wh
Hey Big Sisters | Dilemma Epd | Episode 230
Another Friday, another mess to unpack 👀 And today’s mess is your dilemmas. Oufff, they were HEAVY😭We went through some of the dilemmas you sent us via DMs on TikTok and Instagram, and Kenyan male celebrities, y’all are NOT safe! 🤣 Girls are out here doing some crazy things! Some of the dilemmas we covered included: feeling like you're in competition with your boyfriend's ex fling, domesti
Money Mistakes We've Made in the Name of Love | Episode 229
Click here to buy Tides movie tickets:https://kenyabuzz.com/movies/preview/tidesHappy Friday Inbetweeners!🎙️We have guests on today’s episode! The talented Sarah Hassan and Brian Kabugi, who play Salma and Biko in the movie Tides, joined us for a conversation about the money mistakes we’ve made in the name of love.In Tides, Salma is a musician who works hard and gives all the money she makes to Bi
Sex Mistakes We've Made in the Name of Love | Episode 228
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment, take the quiz: https://beduc.at/bg2631-tmipodcastHappy new month, Inbetweeners!✨Wishing you nothing but great wins this August❤️.Now... today's episode😭...A lot of us can relate to this one because, at some point, we've all made sex mistakes in the name of love. Sextakes such as: Focusing only on his pleasure because "if he finishes, that's e
Reacting to Messy Mondays | Episode 227
Happy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from.Hee... Messy Mondays! You guys are messyyyyyy. If you're new here, Messy Mondays is our weekly segment where Inbetweeners confess the wild, funny, awkward, and downright questionable things they did (or that happened to them) over the weekend. We react to some of your stories and... whew.Y
Is the Group Chat Ruining Your Relationship? | Episode 226
It's Friday🤩! And you know we're back with another fire episode.First, thank you for all the love on the last one. We appreciate you so much❤️🥰.So... is your group chat ruining your relationships?When you're dating or married, does your partner know everything you're saying (complaining)about them in the group chat? Are your friends helping you become a better partner, or is the ch
Hot or Cringe...Sex Edition | Episode 225
Discover your path to greater sexual confidence and fulfillment.https://beduc.at/bg2627-tmipodcastYour ribs will be aching after this episode. It's that funny🤣🤣Happy Friday, Inbetweeners! Hope your day is going great.Today's episode is all about Hot or Cringe? Sex Edition. Is being called "my bitch" during sex hot or an instant turn off?Let's just say...the team did not agree
Things People Say to Single People That May Seem Supportive but Are Actually Annoying | Episode 224
TMI is FIVE 🥹🤩❤️5 years of The Messy Inbetween, honest conversations, and a community that's become home. Our Inbetweeners, we appreciate you so much, thank you for loving and supporting this thing we built.Singles, come to the front right now 😭 you know those things people say that sound supportive but are actually so annoying? "Maybe you should smile more." "It'll happen w
The Do's & Don'ts of Male Female Friendships | Episode 223
Happy New Month, Inbetweeners! You made it to July 🎉May this new month bring you peace, love, comfort and so much happiness.Today's episode is all about opposite gender friendships, how to navigate them, and the do's and don'ts.We had very differing views on this one and honestly the discussion got interesting. We get into the boundaries that need to be in place for a platonic relation
Hey Big Sisters | Dilemma Epd | Episode 222
Happy Friday Inbetweeners! 🎙️We promised you guys a dilemma episode every so often and we're keeping that promise.This one had everything: getting bored of your partner after a month, deadbeat partners, guns, betrayal etc.Thank you to everyone who sent in a dilemma, we see you and we'll be covering more in the next one. Keep them coming (you can share a dilemma by sending us a DM on Instag
An Inbetweener Once Said... | Episode 221
It's Episode Friday Inbetweeners🖤We're back with one of your most loved episodes — An Inbetweener Once Said. This time we went through your comments from our previous episodes and... yeah, you guys do not hold back 😭Would we still be friends if TMI never happened? Being too available for your man. Decentering men.We got into ALL of it. Enjoy the episode!Shop the galaxy collection:https://e
Questions People Are Secretly Googling About Sex & Masturbation | Episode 220
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment:https://beduc.at/bg2618-tmipodcastHappy Friday! How are you all doing? We hope you're doing great wherever you're tuning in from.We're back with another one, and this episode is really everything TMI stands for. Honest, unfiltered, a little messy. Today we're talking about the things people secretly google about masturbation and sex.Is it demo
First Date Fails: Men's Edition | Episode 219
Happy TMI Friday Inbetweeners! 🎉Before we get into it, we have some EXCITING news. We just launched the TMI x Enkata Galaxy Collection and we are so obsessed with how the watches turned out. They are absolutely beautiful and we could not be more excited about this partnership. You can shop the full collection using the link below 🔗Ok now let's get into it because this episode is a FUNNY one fr
Deinfluencing You From Internet Advice That's Ruining Your Relationship | Episode 218
Hey Inbetweeners, happy Friday!Long time no see. Life really comes at you fast. Murugi recently lost her close uncle and we had to take some time off, which is why we have been away for a bit. Thank you for being patient with us.But we’re back and today’s episode is one you’ll probably want to listen to twice!We’re talking about internet advice that might actually be ruining relationships. Things
Reasons Why You’d Want to Be Our Friend | Episode 217
It's Friyay!! 🤩🥳 Happy episode day Inbetweeners!Thank you for all your comments on our last episode...Some of y'all are STRICTTTT! but that's very okay, we get it.Today's episode is a fun one. We're talking about all the reasons you'd actually want to be our friend. And trust us, by the end of this you will be sliding into our DMs asking how to get on our roster 💅😌The frien
Reasons You Wouldn’t Want to Be Our Friend | Episode 216
Happy Labor Day, Inbetweeners 😊✨How’s your Friday going so far? Ours at TMI is already off to a great start, because we’ve got a hot new episode: Reasons You Wouldn’t Want to Be My Friend.“I like to be invited to places but I will not go.” Guess who said it👀?“Everything is trauma?” Who dropped that line👀?Grab a snack and settle in, this one is a wild ride, you might actually never want to be our f
Hey Big Sisters - Dilemma Epd | Episode 215
Long time no dilemma episode… but we’re back🤩.And this one? It’s one of those episodes that stays with you🫂.We love doing dilemma episodes because one story is rarely just one story. What one person is going through is often something so many others are quietly dealing with too. So every time we talk through one, we’re holding space for more people than you think.Today’s episode is a heavy one. Re
My Sexual Partner Once Told Me...| Episode 214
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment:https://beduc.at/bg2624-tmipodcastHappy Friday🤩🤩!Eeeey Inbetweeners😌...Who are you guys dating though?We asked you on Instagram to finish the sentence “My sexual partner once told me…” and wow… the submissions? Wild 😭. But also, small reminder: talk back.If he says “today you’re dry” … ask him, “so what are YOU going to do about that?”If he sa
Things Women Don't Get Enough Credit For | Episode 214
Happy Episode Day! 🤩Last week’s episode had y’all triggered but we’re not getting into that today👀.Women, what don’t we get enough credit for? EVERYTHINGGGGGGG. The PMS, the period itself, the cramps, pregnancy and the pressure to “bounce back.” The list is never ending for sure. What did we miss? Feel free to drop it in the comments below 👇🏽Dusit Princess Nairobi is becoming a regular at this poi
Things Good Men Don't Get Enough Credit For | Episode 213
Happy Easter Weekend, Inbetweeners🐰🤩🎉.Your weekend is already sorted because we have a brand new episode out today🥳. We filmed this one at the beautiful Dusit Princess Nairobi in Westlands. The hotel is stunning, the rooms are spacious, and they have a heated pool, a well-equipped gym, and restaurants with really great food.Now, onto today’s episode…You might be wondering: What don’t men get credi
Unexplored Pathways To Pleasure | Episode 211
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment:https://beducate.me/bg2612-tmipodcastLet's get out of the ordinary and into the unexplored path ways to pleasure...Staying naked more often! That does some magic on unlocking your relationship with your body and your self in general. Another one, incorporating sex toys that you can use with your partner, the gym...you all know what they ab
Things We're Still Figuring Out In Our 30's...|Episode 210
Happy Friday, Eid Mubarak to all our Muslim Ibetweeners🥳🌙We hope you’re having a really soft, beautiful day.Let’s get into today’s conversation… There are still things we’re figuring out in our 30s. It might not always look like it, but trust us… there’s a lot we haven’t quite cracked yet. Even our moms, despite their age and experience, are still figuring some things out too, the journey doesn't
Sex Toys...Where Do You Draw The Line? | Episode 209
Happy Friday Inbetweeners🤩. Let’s talk about the toy drawer💦👀... Where do you actually draw the line?In this episode we share our sex toy stories, how we first discovered them, what the experience has been like for us, and the boundaries we have had to set so that pleasure does not turn into dependency.We had this conversation with the one and only Bev Munga, thee Vibrating Lawyer and founder of G
Things You Need to Decenter as a Woman | Episode 208
Good afternoonnn, It’s lunchtimeee and TMIII just dropped a new oneeee🎶🎵 Flow with u💃💃Anyway, Happy International Women’s Day, Queenbetweeners. Our true ride-or-dies, thank you for being such an integral part of our movement… The Messy Inbetween. We appreciate and love you so much❤️.In line with this year’s IWD theme, Give to Gain, it truly melts our hearts when you DM or comment about how your li
Q n A | Episode 207
It’s definitely… TMI Fridaysssss 🤩🤩New episode. New montage. And yes...we finally delivered the new montage we’ve been promising 💃💃(For the audio gang, its on our YouTube)On today’s episode, we’re answering some of the questions you sent us on Instagram. Also… can we talk about Messy Mondays for a second? First of all, thank you to everyone who participates. Some of your submissions are wild 😭 but
Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks | Episode 206
Your daily dose of happiness is here! TMI FRIDAYSSS🤩🤩.Today’s agenda? Unhinged Feminine Beauty Hacks. And listen… some of them are wild. For example...Speaking affirmations to your water before you drink it, marrying the right person(apparently stress = wrinkles 😭), good sleep, eating your vegetables and adding a perfume oil to your Nivea Nourishing Cocoa - you skin will smell absolutely delicious
Things We Assume Come Naturally, But Actually Don't... | Episode 205
Unlock your personalized roadmap to sexual fulfillment. Take the quiz: https://beducate.me/bg2608-tmipodcastHappy Valentine’s❤️. How are you spending yours? Date night with your manz? Galentines? Or you and your popcorn catching feelings over strangers on the internet🤭?In case you missed it, Friday is the new Wednesday. We’ve officially moved our episode drops to Fridays.Today’s episode is about t
Our 2026 Ins & Outs | Episode 204
Surpriseeeee🤩🎉No, you're not dreaming , it’s actually a new episode, dropping on a Friday!Hey Inbetweeners! Happy New Year 🥂How have you been? We missed you so much during our two-month break, so we decided to come back quietly with a likkle sumn’.This is our first episode of the year and we’re talking 2026 ins and outs — paced productivity, dating 👀, gatekeeping, delusion (girls, get ready to
From the Peaks to the Pits...Our 2025 Recap | Epd 203
The last episode of 2025! We did it, Inbetweeners!Happy Wednesday and welcome to our final episode of the year. What. A. Year.We’ve both had our fair share of lows including losing loved ones and some really beautiful highs. Jo launched her lip product business (The Lip Tribe!) and stepped into such a gorgeous era. Lyd ran a whole 10km, celebrated life, and held onto friendships that truly showed
Movie Moments That are Red Flags in Real Life |Epd 202
Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November!LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2522-tmipodcastCoupon Code: tmipodcast69Climaxing together in one minute, falling in love in two days… umm, absolutely not.Today we’re talking about the things movies sell to us as romantic but are actually red flags in real life or just don’t happen. The window-throwing declarations of lo
Less of… & More of… Sex, Relationships & Friendships |Epd 201
Get your annual Beducated subscription for just $69 this November!LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2542-tmipodcastCoupon Code: tmipodcast69Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners!Less penetration, more everything else — spanking, choking, toys 👀In the spirit of Black November, we’re getting real about the things we’re doing less of and what we’re doing more of in relationships, friendships, sex, a
Big Girl Jobs, Older Men & Friendship Breakups |Epd 200
200 episodes in the bag💼🤩✨We did that!🥰
The giveaway post goes up on our Instagram this week, so keep an eye out and make sure you participate.This week, we’re continuing the conversation on canon events that shape you as a woman, from the boyfriend who was secretly your biggest hater, to the friendship that ended and took a chunk of you with it, to landing your first big girl job.We hope you enjo
Canon Events That Shape You as A Woman |Epd 199
Your weekly source of joy is here! Happy Happy Wednesday!We’re talking about the canon events that shaped us as women — the moments that completely changed how we see the world. From realizing that what happened to you was actually sexual assault, to that sudden frontal lobe upgrade that, interestingly for us, came in our 30s, and even that situationship that almost finished you.Tell us in the com
What's Destroying Relationships More Than Cheating? |Epd 198
Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated!LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2538-tmipodcastCoupon Code: tmipodcastWe’ve always thought cheating was the biggest relationship destroyer but baby, there’s a lot more shaking things up nowadays. From addiction and neglect to lack of consideration and self-awareness, the list goes on.In this episode, we’re unpacking some of the real iss
Abortion Truths No One Talks About | Epd 197
Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners!You guys sent us so many questions after our “Stranger Removal” episode and we heard you❤This week, we’re answering some of them and breaking down some of the biggest myths around abortion.To help us unpack your questions, we sat down with Dr. John Nyamu, a consultant obstetrician and gynaecologist with over 30 years of experience. From myths and misconceptions to men
How to Ruin a Date 101 |Epd 196
Hey Inbetweeners💖 We missed you last week but guess what… we’re back with another banger 🎉 This time we’re talking about the things that can completely ruin a date. Like imagine pulling up cute and ready only for him to ask you to pay for your own meal 🍽️😩 or spend the whole date talking about his ex 🚩 Snacks in hand because this one is an episode you don’t want to miss 🍿✨ And tell us in the comme
Unspoken rules of Situationships |Epd 195
Let’s talk situationshipssss! The real pandemic among the youth 🤣. On this episode we’re getting into the tea: what actually makes a situationship different from a relationship or FWB, plus the unspoken rules (like knowing it’s time-limited, and safe sex is a must 👀). We are doing the work of saving y'all from..."I said I was not looking for something serious from the beginning" text from you situ
So…Are you really happy with your sex life right now? |Epd 194
Get 50% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated!LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2534-tmipodcastCoupon Code: tmipodcast✨ Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! ✨We recently asked you on our Instagram: “What’s one thing you’d change about your current sex life?” and whew🥲the answers told us one thing loud and clear… most of us aren’t exactly thrilled in the bedroom 👀. Truth is, it’s not always
STRANGER REMOVAL |Epd 193
“CTRL+Z” aka abortion...That’s the conversation on today's episode.Recent trends show just how alarming the rate of unsafe abortions in Kenya is, some even calling it “stranger removal.” In this episode, we’re shining a light on the realities behind this, from the education gap in our society, like using morning-after pills as contraception to trying dangerous DIY methods… it’s messy, it’s scary,
An Inbetweener Once Said...|Epd 192
It’s TMI Wednesday✨Today we’re reacting to your comments from episode 190: Life is Messy.You guys shared what life is teaching you, from learning to slow down, to trusting that things will always work out and honestly, we had the best time reading through them🫶🏽Enjoy the episode & we'll see you on Saturday in your beautiful pink outfits🩷Link to buy tickets:https://sps.hustlesasa.shop/products/
Hey Big Sisters-Dilemma Epd | Epd 191
It’s been a minute since we did a dilemma episode, but the wait is over!First, thank you for being so open with us—sharing your dilemmas really helps us figure out what conversations we need to lean into more.Got a dilemma? Slide into our DMs! We might reply to you directly, share it (anonymously, of course) on our stories—with your go-ahead—or even bring it up in an episode.Link to Lyd's therapis
Life is Messy!!! | Epd 190
This one wasn’t even supposed to happen 😅 We sat down to shoot a dilemma episode, but ended up just catching up — and it turned out to be the conversation we didn’t know we needed.Hope you love it as much as we did recording it 💕And don’t worry, the next one is definitely your dilemmas!Engage us:YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAMTMI Podcast
We’ ve tasted employment & self-employment, We highly recommend a rich, generous husband | Epd 189
Rich generous husband, any day everyday!😅We recently came across this trend and decided to hop on it: "I have tasted X, I have tasted Y & I highly recommend Z.Do you agree with the ones we’ve shared in the episode?Drop your own examples in the comments — we’d love to hear them!Link to therapy Jeff:https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLut4htRQEO/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=YmRkejFzbjRhbXR5Engage u
Why is the Worst Man Always the Best in Bed?👀| Epd 188
Get 60% OFF your annual subscription on Beducated!🔗:https://beducate.me/bg2530-tmipodcastToday's episode is all about Sex!The different kinds of sex people have depending on the season of life they are in. Make-up sex, Toxic sex...the one with the worst man you know, but somehow it's the best sex you've ever had 👀, Break-up sex, I love him sex, Aggresive Sex and many more!Let us know in the commen
I knew I couldn’t marry him when…|Epd 187
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners! 🎊Today we’re talking about that moment you realized you could never marry him…We asked you on Instagram to submit your responses and you guys did not hold back!From “he sent the exact amount for Uber money” to “he said sometimes you have to slap a woman,” some of these had us shook 😭We agreed with some… others had us debating for real!Let’s get into it — comment below
Growing Through It |Epd 186
Guess who’s backkkkk?Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners — we’ve missed you so much! We’re officially back, and what better way to ease in than with a good old catch-up? Life has really been happening, whew!In this episode, we’re discussing what it’s been like "growing through it" for the last couple of months. The grief, lessons, the shifts, the quiet moments & the realizations.Feels so good to be back
Propaganda I’m Falling For |Epd 185
It’s TMI Wednesdayyy!In today’s episode, we’re getting into the propaganda we’re totally falling for 100%, from romantic love and contraception, to financial literacy, zero days, and even some sexual preferences we’re lowkey warming up to 👀Definitely an episode you’ll want to watch!What is a propaganda you're falling for, tell us down in the comments section.Tara Nicole's Video referenced in the v
Propaganda I’m not falling for…| Epd 184
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners!Propaganda is a sustained effort by a group of people to get you to believe or try something.Has alcohol overconsumption been glamorized a bit too much? What about bleaching? Minimalism?These are just a few of the things we unpack in today’s episode as we discuss the propaganda we’re not falling for.What’s one you’re not buying into? Let us know in the comments.Engage
Canon Events in Friendships |Epd 183
What’s a Wednesday without a new TMI episode? 👀Happy Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners! How are y’all doing?In today’s episode, we’re talking canon events in friendships, those defining moments that shape, stretch, or even shake a friendship. From the good to the messy.💬 What’s one significant event that’s shaped your own friendships? Tell us in the comments!Alsooooooo, we’re at 150K on Instagram and
The Only Child Confessions featuring Victor Peace |Epd 182
Do an only child episode!”…..“Where’s the only child episode??”
You guys have been in our DMs demanding this one and guess what? It’s finally here!We sat down with the super talented Victor Peace to talk about what it’s really like growing up as an only child. From hyper-independence to the quiet loneliness, to how that has shaped his relationships… wheeew😮💨. He really opened up.Let us know in th
Answering Your Questions (Part 1) | Epd 181
Happy Wednesday Inbetweeners!
On today’s episode, we’re answering some of the questions you sent in on IG. Situation-ships… Did we ever feel a little late in our 20s? Hmmm… you’ll want to hear the full tea.And before you come for us in the comments and DMs, Part 2 is on the way.Engage us:YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdWFGA INSTAGRAMTMI Podcast KE - h
Self-Pleasure 101 | Epd 180
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✨ The Do’s (like keeping it clean ie yourself and your toys)
🚫 The Don’ts (yes, you can overd
The Last Born Experience Unfiltered | Epd 179
Last borns—what do they really need? They’re often the most loved in the family, so what more could they possibly want? We’ve been conditioned to overlook their opinions and dismiss their emotions but it’s time to change that.We had the most amazing time with Nelly, who didn’t just talk, she unpacked the reality of being the last born in a way that was honest, hilarious, and deeply eye-opening. Fr
The Aftermath |Episode 178
Happy Wednesday, Inbetweeners. We’re back, just like we promised.❤️Before anything else—Thank you! Your DMs, your kind words, your condolences have carried us through.Today’s episode is a heavy one. As many of you know, Lydia recently lost her beloved cousin Shii—someone incredibly close to her heart. In this episode, we talk about what happened, the aftermath, how to support your loved ones throu
The Reality of Being A Middle-born| Epd 177
We’re officially at 141k subbies! 🥳 Thank you so much, Inbetweeners — your love, your comments, your wild takes… we see them all, and we wouldn’t be here without you.Now, onto today’s episode… middle children. The forgotten ones. The invisible siblings. Or are they?We’re unpacking the middleborn experience — do they have a place on the sibling shelf? Is this forgotten child thing facts or fiction?
Firstborns: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly|Epd 176
Firstborns… breathe in, breathe out. You’ve got this❤️🥹In today’s episode, we’re talking about something that so many of you relate to; from feeling the pressure to constantly show up for everyone, to navigating unspoken expectations at home and even relationships…Tap into the conversation and drop your thoughts in the comments!And if you know anyone who needs to hear this… send this their way😚Thi
An Inbetweener Once Said…|Epd 175
It’s TMI Day🥳🤩!This episode is a special one, we're going through some of your comments from past episodes and having a real convo about them.And wow, you guys definitely had things to say! 😂 “They’re about to end…” Stick with us as we get into it and address all your thoughts.Also, we’re listening – expect longer episodes soon with shorter intros and more of what you love. Let’s get into it!Engag
The Bar Was So Low I…|Epd174
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Signs of a Dying Relationship 💔|Epd 173
Is my boyfriend pulling away?" Google searchers, assemble! 👀 In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the signs of a dying relationship not dead, not just sick, but DYING. Yes, there’s a difference!Now, be honest… how many signs made your heart break a little? 😅 Guess it’s time to leave that baboon hunny, as Lyd says!Engage us:YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDR
Who’s most likely to..? |Epd 172
Heyyy Inbetweeners! How’s everyone doing?This week’s episode has been a long time coming, and it’s finally here! Who’s most likely…?We had you guys send in your wildest questions, and wow... y’all really came for us! Like, who’s most likely to drop a sex tape? 😭😂Play along and guess with us!
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International Women’s Day with Kesi Njoro | Epd 171
Happy International Women’s Day!💜 This year’s theme is Accelerating Action, and we’ve got the incredibly talented Kesin Njoro, a practicing counselor, joining us for this episode. She’s taking us through her story, and trust me, you’ll want to grab a pen and paper because she’s about to drop some serious gems!What’s one piece of advice that hit home for you? Let us know in the comments!Engage us:I
Birthday Reflections |Epd 170
Happy Birthday to us!🥳
How are we already in our mid 30s?! Weren’t we just celebrating the big 3-0 the other day? Time has really moved fast.In this episode, we’re reflecting on the lessons we’ve learned, the growth we’ve had, and how life just keeps life-ing. One thing’s for sure, we’ve come a long way, and we’re so grateful for every moment.Mid thirties gang is it lit?🤩🤩Engage us:YOUTUBE: TMI Po
The Valentine’s Episode ft Beducated |Epd 169
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Coupon Code: tmipodcastHappy post Valentine’s! ❤️ We hope your day was filled with love, pleasure, and maybe even a little adventure. ✨Now, let’s talk Beducated…The Beducated 2024 Sex Report 🔖 just dropped, and we had to get into it! In this episode, we unpack the findings, react to the wildest takes
The Break, the Catch-Up & Our 2025 Intentions| Ep 168
Happy New Year, Inbetweeners! 🎉✨
How are you guys doing? We missed you sooo much, and we’re so excited to be back! 🥹The DMs, the comments, the “When are you guys coming back?”—we’ve seen it all 👀, and the wait is finally over! Here’s our very first episode of the year! 🥳In this one, we’re catching up on all the tea from our break and how January has been treating us so far. Plus, we’re sharing our
2024 Wrapped | Episode 167
We’re wrapping up 2024 by looking back at those resolutions we made at the beginning of the year. Did we crush them or did life completely curve us? 👀
Murugi’s been talking about going on a solo trip…but did the girl actually pull through? And Lydia’s all “one book a month before bed”—how many did she really read? Let’s get into it!
This episode is all about looking back at what the year has bee
Unpopular opinions about Christmas🎄🎁...|Episode 166
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🎄✨ It’s tiiiiiime! ✨🎄
Are we excited about the holiday season?! Whether you’re packing your bags for a vacay, traveling upcountry, or planning a cozy solo Christmas, the most wonderful time of the year is just around the corner! 🎅🎁
On this ep
I no longer need friends who...|Eps 165
We are all T for Tayaaaddd of ghetto ass friends. You are giving jealous vibes… bye!✋🏾 You’re not respecting boundaries…bye!✋🏾 You are always in that toxic relationship dragging us in your mess only to go back…girl bye!✋🏾 We are growwnnnn. Some of your points though…😅😂 Are our friends our business partners or our friends ?👀 Are our friends our spiritual leaders? 👀 I don’t know. We have notes.
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Things we learnt from our family...|Eps 164
Things we have learnt from our family!Take a seat and a breath because…😭Okay, it’s not all doom and gloom but family with teach you THINGS! Good or bad, those lessons can actually be so helpful in other areas of life. What’s something you’ve learnt from your family? Let us know in the comments below.
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The older i get the more i need...|Eps 163
A few weeks ago we did the episode ‘the older I get the LESS I need…’ and you guys had a lot to say! But what do you need MORE of as you get older. Turns out, a lot!😅 More lying down, more health consciousness and more head! Always more head!😄
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Getting INTIMATE with each other🥰....|Eps 162
Are you and your friends building intimacy ama it’s just vibes ?🤭 We played this intimacy Q&A and things got rather deep. Questions on our beliefs, our fears and friendship. We highly recommend you watch this with a friend and play along. You can share your responses to the questions in the comments below. 🤍
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Things we should not be embarrassed about… | Episode 161
Ever find yourself cringing at the things that make you, well, YOU ? 🤪😅In this episode we’ll be looking into some habits or some heavy situations we often feel embarrassed about that you really shouldn’t ! Grab your snack and get ready for some laughs and relatable moments and don’t forget to Like, Subscribe & Share ❤️ YOUTUBE: TMI Podcast KE - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6fVFxrbf0HDRW3B2mdW
The older I get the less I need… | Episode 160
Get 60% off on Beducated for the November deal 😍LINK TO THE DISCOUNT: https://beducate.me/bg2439-tmipodcast Coupon code: tmipodcast60 We would definitely not have thought the older we became the less we would need some things, and it’s quite interesting because even ourselves we are shocked 🤣🤣We would really love to see what some of yours could be in the comments section so we can see whether we r
